I think some fans have a hard time separating the show from the fandom and the characters from the actors, which just makes the rest of us look...well, like Becky!
I feel so bad for Jensen coz he does seem quite shy and private. He is just a bloke with a family after all : (
I think Misha is much better at handling that stuff and Jared, well...is just Jared : )
They could quite easily not bother with the fans at all but they do so it just makes it awkward when stuff like this happens.
Could you imagine what it would be like if other people found out that they were good-looking! Bedlam! ; ) x